When we were going to get married I told my wife that the most important thing to me in a marriage was going to be sex. Not fucking but intimacy and that type of thing. But once I said I do, she basically said I don't have to anymore and sex dried up faster then the Wedding Cake. It went from once a day on the Honeymoon to once a month, then every two, then every 3, then twice a year, and finally once a year on our Anniversary.
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The day when I could finally know my husband on a sexual level. But now the honeymoon is over and real life has begun. Oh how I longed to be with him! And the idea of not desiring to be intimate with my husband was never a thought that crossed my mind.
It takes both of you to make it work and it is mutually beneficial for both parities. The Bible pretty much says that married folks should be having sex and lots of it. No, really it says that the only time to refrain from sex is for a period of time for fasting and praying and that is only for a period of time, otherwise the devil will use that to keep you apart. The reality?
The man went on to unpack more of his marital history. He told me that the marriage had started off well and in the early stages of their relationship there had been a healthy sex life. Both spouses seemed satisfied by the level of frequency and intimacy in their bedroom. Their marriage bed now seemed to be a cold and uninviting place where both spouses curled up on their own side with no physical touch at all. He had done all he knew to do to turn the tide.